The Gestalt Lens

Welcome to my blog, where I share my professional expertise on the subjects I encounter and think about every day in my therapy practice. I cover everything from mindfulness and mindset, to menopause, perfectionism, and boundary setting – all through the lens of Gestalt psychotherapy. Come to learn – and join in the discussion.

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The Male Loneliness Epidemic: Why So Many Men Feel Disconnected

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Emotional Intelligence for Men: What It Is and Why It Changes Everything

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Anger in Men: When It’s More Than Just Temper

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Signs of Depression in Men: What They Look Like and Where to Get Help

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Stress in Men: Why It Builds Silently and What to Do About It

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How to Be a Good Husband: What Therapy Teaches About Showing Up

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Anxiety in Men: How It Shows Up When It Doesn’t Look Like Anxiety

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Daddy Issues in Men: How Attachment Wounds Show Up in Adult Life

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How to Be a Good Dad: What Fatherhood Really Asks of You

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Trauma Dumping: Signs, Effects, and How to Stop

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Intergenerational Trauma: Recognizing Inherited Patterns and Finding Your Way Through

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Family Trauma Therapy: Healing the System That Shaped You

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What Is Complex Trauma and How Does It Show Up in Adulthood?

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Trauma Bonding: When Old Survival Patterns Show Up in Adult Love

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Growing Up Too Soon: The Lasting Impact of Childhood Trauma

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Dear Men, You Have Been Lied To, And Here’s the Truth

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The Codependent CEO: Whis Is It, How It Effects Leadership,What To Do About It

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Signs of Porn Addiction in Men: Recognize and Address the Issue

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ADHD and Perfectionism in Men: How They Intersect and Impact Your Life

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Well-Being for the Perfectionist Professional Woman

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How To Make Decision When You Feel Stuck

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Alcohol & Weight Loss: What You Need to Know

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Understanding The Link of ADHD & Addiction

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How To Grow Beyond Your Comfort Zone Personally & Professionally

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Alcohol and Caffeine: How Do They Interact Together?

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At Home: The Professional Caregiver

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I’m Afraid To Be Alone

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Codependency: Causes and Moving Towards Interdependence

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From Frenzy to Focus: How We Can Cancel Hustle Culture & Create A New Sustainable Work Paradigm

What I Wish My 30-Year-old Self Knew

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Love Yourself First: A Path to Healthier Relationships

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Attacking January & Winter Blues

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How To Mindfully Manage Holiday Stress

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What is Passive Aggression and How to Deal With It

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Simple Tips: How Practice The Art of Happiness

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Gestalt Therapy

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What You Need to Know About Being a People Pleaser

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Hysterectomy Grief: The Emotional Journey No One Warned You About